I, sometimes, do not understand these physical and mental compositions of human beings. Are these compositions like chemical ones? Are we the same as a single oxygen atom cannot exist in the atmosphere? Do we need one more person to share life with, or to say, to become stable?
And then, the fundamental question that rotates in my head is, “Why should we marry or have a girlfriend?” Is it because it eases your thinking and calms down your mind? Say, If you are single, you talk inside your head, and what if you fall into a relationship? Do you start sharing all your thoughts with your mate, and is that sharing the thing that keeps you refreshed and relaxed? One of my colleagues, who is so worried when he is single, appears calm after calling his wife and talking with her for a few minutes. One of my friends who has been engaged recently seems so active these days that he has even started motivating me and others to do something new instead of wasting time on FB (horrible!). One more friend has already started gymnastics and swimming while he is still in the initial process of getting engaged. Well, they all are excited! Similar are a few more cases.
When I think about all this stuff, all that comes to mind is the chapter called Chemical Bonding from Chemistry. When the chemistry between you and that girl/guy works fine, you fall into a relationship. So, all the people who are into relationships, CHILL. And all the people who are still single like me, Double Chill. And all the people who are unmarried throughout life (there was one whom I met on a particular occasion) Triple Chill. Because all we’ve done in life is all we really wanted to do.
The only complaint about having a relationship that bothers me is, “Will these mood changes remain throughout life?” Although I have almost wiped off the habit of predicting the future, I think it’s always better to have a few self-help books on relationships to keep the PRESENT drifting with the same excitement.
But in the end, I return to my zero-level thinking and the same old question: “What is life?” Is it again the same growing up, finding a job, marrying a girl, having kids, and seeing them doing the same things? Or is it reading the same former sentence with lots of “Excitement!”? OR is this all some kind of NONSENSE? I do not know. My questions remain questions even after so many thoughts. But I thank you for reading this and would be delighted to see what you think about these things!
